Permission to Not Like Everything:
A Lesson From a recent event. At the weekend, I went to a kink event, nothing...
Read MoreRediscovering My Dominance
Reflections on Returning to Authentic Control as a Male Dom There was a time...
Read MoreWhen the Cain Becomes a Crutch
There’s a moment that catches you off guard sometimes, right in the...
Read MoreThe Creative Struggles of a Dom: Making Scenes Fun, Safe, and Exciting
It is its own reward to be a Dominant in the world of BDSM, and its own...
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When Two Scenes Couldn’t Feel More Different: A Dom’s Perspective on Intensity, Energy, and Emotional Aftermath
The Myth of Being Consistent in KinkHere’s the thing,...
Read MoreHow In BDSM a Responsible Dom Assesses Risk: Creating Safer, Smarter, More Trustworthy Scenes
There’s a lot of power in play, literally and figuratively. Whether...
Read MoreWhy “Good Girl” Hits Different: A Dominant’s Take on Praise and Power
There’s this moment that I notice when ...
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Being a Gentleman Dom vs. an Alpha Dom in the BDSM Scene.
During my journey so far, I have come to realise where I fit in the spectrum...
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So I am a Sadist, but there are some things I will not do…
I have found that I am a bit of a Sadist. It is a part of who I am, stitched...
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