House of Herra is more than a website; It’s a sanctuary for those drawn to the shadows, where power meets purpose. Here, you’ll find thoughtful explorations of the BDSM lifestyle, from the unfiltered realities faced by Dominants and submissives, to the intimate insights that continue to shape my own philosophy of power exchange.
Whether you’re a seasoned player or just beginning to explore your desires, I hope this space offers you something valuable: insight, conversation, community, and the courage to walk your own path with honesty and intention.
House of Herra, where dominance is intentional, submission is sacred, and every journey matters.
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Permission to Not Like Everything:
A Lesson From a recent event. At the weekend, I went to a kink event, nothing unusual about that as I regularly attend events but this one triggered something different. I’ve been part of the BDSM community long enough that the smell of leather, the low murmur...
Rediscovering My Dominance
Reflections on Returning to Authentic Control as a Male Dom There was a time when my dominance felt effortless. It wasn’t something I had to think about or construct, it was simply part of who I was. The way I carried myself, the energy I brought into a room,...
When the Cain Becomes a Crutch
There’s a moment that catches you off guard sometimes, right in the middle of a scene when you realise you’re swinging harder than you’re connecting. The flogger feels right in your hand, the rhythm is good, your partner is responding...
Orgasm Control: Teasing, Denying, and Taking What’s Yours
There’s something intoxicating about orgasm control. It’s not just about sex, or even about orgasms, it’s about power, surrender, tension, and connection. It’s about deciding who gets to come, when, how, and under what conditions. Sometimes...
Can you enjoy BDSM without Pain
A lot of people hear “BDSM” and immediately think whips, floggers, and bruises. For some, that’s thrilling. For others, it’s intimidating enough to make them back away entirely. Here’s the truth: BDSM doesn’t have to hurt. Pain is...
Edge Play in BDSM Explained: Understanding the Risks and Responsibilities
In the world of BDSM, the term “edge play” often comes up in conversations about risk, trust, and negotiation. It’s a phrase that can sound intimidating, and with good reason. Edge play involves pushing boundaries, exploring activities that come with...
Finding the Right BDSM Partner: A Dom’s Guide to Trust, Respect, and Connection
The first time I went looking for a BDSM partner, I made every mistake in the book. I rushed into play before building trust, mistook shared kinks for shared values, and thought chemistry was enough to carry a dynamic. Spoiler: it wasn’t. The scene ended...
How I Learned to Find the Right Dom (The Hard Way): A Submissive’s Story
The first time I went searching for a Dominant, I felt like I was finally entering a hidden world I'd been longing for years to access. I was anxious, tingling with curiosity, and, to be honest, a bit desperate to belong. So when I met someone who appeared interested,...
The Creative Struggles of a Dom: Making Scenes Fun, Safe, and Exciting
It is its own reward to be a Dominant in the world of BDSM, and its own challenge. Among the greatest? Finding new scene ideas all the time that challenge, engage, and excite a submissive, while always keeping safety and emotional health first. It's a juggling act...
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“The perfect Dom in BDSM does not exist.”
And honestly? That’s the point.
Healthy dominance isn’t about being flawless or having every answer.
It’s about showing up with integrity, communication, curiosity, and care.
When we let go of the fantasy of the “perfect Dom,” we make room for:
✨ real negotiation
✨ real safety
✨ real intimacy
✨ real power exchange
Perfection isn’t sexy.
Respect, consent, and growth are.
Tell me — what qualities do you think make someone a great Dom or sub?
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Dom`s your greatest tool isn’t in your kit—it’s your words.
Communication makes a dynamic safe, trustworthy, and fulfilling.
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Consent is not a static promise
It’s a rhythm.
A pulse that changes as your body, heart, and desires shift.
In kink, that rhythm becomes sacred communication: a quiet nod, a whispered color, a breath that says “pause.”
Every “yes” is alive, and every “no” is just as holy.
The most erotic thing you can bring to the scene?
Your attunement.
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Sub burnout isn’t a flaw — it’s a sign your soul needs a gentle pause.
In the rhythm of surrender, we sometimes forget the dance of care. When exhaustion replaces ecstasy, it’s time to listen, rest, and realign. Your limits are not barriers — they are your guideposts. 🌙
Together, let’s create space for play that nourishes as deeply as it excites. Because thriving in BDSM starts with thriving within yourself.
Burnout doesn’t mean you’ve failed — it means you’ve given too much without replenishing.
In the sacred space of dominance, leadership is more than control — it’s stewardship of energy, care, and consent. When that energy fades, so does joy. Pause. Listen. Reset. Your power is renewed in rest. 🌙
Let’s hold space for each other — for the leaders who give deeply, and for the gentle return to strength that keeps the play alive.
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Burnout doesn’t mean you’ve failed — it means you’ve given too much without replenishing.
In the sacred space of dominance, leadership is more than control — it’s stewardship of energy, care, and consent. When that energy fades, so does joy. Pause. Listen. Reset. Your power is renewed in rest. 🌙
Let’s hold space for each other — for the leaders who give deeply, and for the gentle return to strength that keeps the play alive.
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Pick-up play isn’t about recklessness — it’s about presence.
It’s that spark you feel, the unspoken trust, the shared “yes.”
But behind every spontaneous scene is real communication, care, and consent.
When you play — play with heart, not haste.
Safety keeps the freedom beautiful. 🌹
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Am I too Old to be your Daddy?
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So true
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Just wondering
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Roleplay works because it taps into psychology, not props.
Explore dynamics, tension, and imagination safely for maximum impact.
💡 Tip: Always negotiate boundaries first.
📌 Save for planning your next roleplay scenario.
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A good Dom sees what’s unsaid.
Learning to read your sub’s body language builds trust, safety, and intimacy.
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Trust, growth, and deep connection don’t happen overnight.
Patience is your strongest tool.
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Dom or sub, never be afraid to evaluate your role.
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Why Beginners Rush
Patience beats excitement.
Start small, grow trust, enjoy the journey.
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Rituals add stability, emotional resonance, and meaning to your scenes.
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Conflict is normal in any D/s dynamic.
How you handle it determines if your connection grows stronger.
📩 DM if you want strategies for navigating disagreements safely.
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Aftercare isn’t optional.
It’s essential.
Simple acts of care stabilize emotions and reinforce trust. ❤️
Let us know what your aftercare looks like.
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Ever walked into a “fetish night” at a swinger club and realised the rules weren’t what you thought?
BDSM and swinging have wildly different consent cultures—and when those worlds meet, misunderstandings are almost guaranteed.
This post walks you through how to:
• Spot the consent gaps before they cause problems
• Hold your values in spaces that don’t share them
• Keep your partner (and your scene) safe without killing the vibe
Your dynamic, your boundaries, your culture—it’s worth protecting.
Which rule set would you default to in a mixed space? Drop your thoughts below. ⬇️
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There is something so theraputic about rope.
Aesthetic Shibari
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Consent isn’t optional
It’s everything.
Respect it, check in, and protect your dynamic. 🛡️
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Orgasm control isn’t just about sex
it’s about power, surrender, and connection.
Whether it’s denial, edging, or forced release, the real magic is in the control you hold (or give up).
Done with care, it’s one of the most electrifying forms of play.
Would you rather be the one who decides—or the one who begs?
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Limits aren’t obstacles
they’re clarity.
Hard or soft, knowing them protects everyone and deepens trust.
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Negotiation isn’t awkward
it’s essential.
Clear communication = better scenes and trust.
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Safety isn’t one-size-fits-all.
SSC or RACK?
Learn both and pick what works for you.
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BDSM isn’t just letters.
It’s trust, connection, and a unique way of exploring intimacy.
Understanding it changes how you play and relate. 💡
Save for later or share with a partner who’s curious.
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A lot of people think BDSM = pain.
Here’s the thing: that’s just one path—not the whole journey.
From roleplay to restraint, sensation play to rituals, there are endless ways to explore kink without a single sting.
💬 What about you? Does no-pain BDSM sound like something you’d try—or is pain part of the thrill for you?
✨ Save this post if you ever need a reminder: your kink doesn’t have to hurt to be real.
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When she is a real Brat...
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Edge play often sparks curiosity and fear.
It’s not about being reckless.
It’s about exploring high-risk dynamics with trust, negotiation, and awareness.
⚡ Some examples: breath play, knife play, CNC, fire play, humiliation.
⚡ What’s edgy to one person may feel safe to another.
⚡ The key is informed choice and mutual respect.
💬 Would you ever explore edge play, or is it a hard limit for you?
Drop your thoughts below.
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When you know, you know....
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Finding a BDSM partner isn’t about luck—it’s about alignment.
It’s not just about toys or shared kinks. It’s about trust, respect, and honesty. That’s what makes play deeply fulfilling instead of just “hot.”
✨ Know yourself first
✨ Be upfront about what you want
✨ Listen as much as you speak
✨ Respect boundaries—yours and theirs
The right partner won’t just play with you. They’ll hold your vulnerability with care, and trust you to do the same.
💬 What do you look for first in a BDSM partner—kink compatibility, or value alignment?
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The first time I went looking for a Dom, I thought it would be simple. Find someone into the same toys, jump in, and it would just work.
Spoiler: it didn’t.
It took trial, error, and a few hard lessons to realize the truth—finding the right Dominant isn’t about whips, ropes, or titles. It’s about trust, respect, and communication.
This carousel shares what I wish I’d known when I was starting out as a submissive.
✨ Save this if you’re new to the lifestyle
✨ Share it with a friend who needs a gentle nudge
✨ Or let me know: what’s the biggest lesson you learned when finding the right partner?
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Being a Dom isn’t just about power
it’s about keeping scenes exciting, safe, and meaningful. And let’s be real: that can get hard when the beginner’s rush fades and inspiration runs low.
Here’s the truth: novelty doesn’t always mean new toys or wild ideas.
Sometimes it’s a small twist, a change in setting, or simply knowing when to push your sub.
✨ Save this carousel if you’ve ever felt the creative pressure of “what’s next?” as a Dom.
✨ Share it with a partner if you’re both craving fresh inspiration.
Your creativity doesn’t come from props—it comes from connection.
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A busy 4 weekends, so much to explore...
Evo tomorrow: https://fetlife.com/events/1844503
Cirque on the 31st: https://fetlife.com/events/1665542
Spookeez Play Munch 7th: https://fetlife.com/events/1665542
KKG Kinky Kamping & Glamping 12th - 14th: https://fetlife.com/events/1649935
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House of Herra is the place for honest discussion.
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Whether you’re a Dom, sub, or switch.
House of Herra is the place for honest discussion around the BDSM scene.
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Ever walked into a “fetish night” at a swinger club and realised the rules weren’t what you thought?
BDSM and swinging have wildly different consent cultures—and when those worlds meet, misunderstandings are almost guaranteed.
This post walks you through how to:
• Spot the consent gaps before they cause problems
• Hold your values in spaces that don’t share them
• Keep your partner (and your scene) safe without killing the vibe
Your dynamic, your boundaries, your culture—it’s worth protecting.
Which rule set would you default to in a mixed space?
Drop your thoughts below. �
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One week. Two scenes. Same partner. Completely different worlds.
That’s the magic of this dynamic—each scene is shaped by the moment, the mindset, and the connection we bring into it.
In one scene, she fought me tooth and nail until the brat in her finally surrendered.
In the next, she stood silent in the cold, each strike cutting deeper into her stillness… and this time, it was me managing my own emotional fallout.
As Doms, we can’t expect every session to feel the same. We also can’t ignore our own emotional responses—because scenes impact us, too.
� Have you ever been surprised by how different two scenes felt, even with the same partner?
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The Staffordshire Scene Munch "Kinky Drinkies" is tomorrow Sunday the 10th. Message fir details or follow the link.
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Whether you’re a sub, a Dom, a switch
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House of Herra is the place for honest discussion.
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Whether you’re a sub, a Dom, a switch
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Whether you’re a sub, a Dom, a switch
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Whether you’re a sub, a Dom, a switch—or somewhere in between—House of Herra is the place for honest discussion.
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Let’s talk about aftercare—because sub drop is real, and your needs don’t end when the scene does.
This carousel breaks down what you, as a submissive, can do to support your emotional and physical well-being after play.
� Topics inside:
� How to identify your aftercare needs
� What to communicate before and after a scene
� Why self-care isn’t selfish
� How to handle sub drop and emotional shifts
� What`s your go-to aftercare must-have? Drop it in the comments.
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Dominance isn’t just about control. It’s about care.
Aftercare is where you show that your authority comes with responsibility. Where you turn adrenaline into connection, and trust into intimacy.
In this post, you`ll learn:
– What your role as a Dom is after a scene
– How to offer emotional + physical support
– What aftercare tools and habits to build
– Why this part might be more important than the scene itself
� Tag a Dom who takes aftercare seriously.
� Save this for your next play session.
� Let’s make care a core kink value.
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Submission isn’t weak—it’s risky. And that’s what makes it sacred.
As a Dominant, I’ve seen how easy it is for predators to hide in plain sight. They speak the language. They offer “training.” They talk about protection—while slowly removing your breath, your vision, your voice.
Submission is powerful. Beautiful. Real.
But it’s also vulnerable. And that’s what makes it dangerous in the wrong hands.
Let’s talk more about this. About vetting. About safety. About the strength it takes to submit well.
Drop a � if you’ve ever walked the rose garden—and seen the thorns.
Tag a submissive who deserves to hear this.
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Submission is powerful. Beautiful. Real.
But it’s also vulnerable. And that’s what makes it dangerous in the wrong hands.
Let’s talk more aout the strength it takes to submit well.
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Topping from the bottom.
It gets thrown around like a warning label in kink spaces.
But most of the time? It’s misused.
Here’s what the term actually means, what it doesn’t—and why shutting down your partner with it might be doing more harm than good.
This post breaks it down for Doms, subs, and switches alike—because clarity isn’t a luxury in power exchange. It’s essential.
� Save this for later
� Share with your partner(s)
� And drop a comment—have you ever seen this phrase used wrongly?
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Kink isn’t “risky” just because it’s intense.
The real danger comes when partners skip the conversations that matter.
This post is for the Doms who take their role seriously. For the subs who crave both depth and safety. For the dynamics built on trust, not just control.
You don’t need to be perfect—just aware, connected, and honest.
Risk assessment isn`t a mood killer. It`s part of the power.
� Save this post to revisit before your next scene.
� Share it with a partner who holds your trust.
� Let me know in the comments: What’s your favorite question to ask before a scene?
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Kink isn’t the problem. Shame is.
When someone mocks or judges another person’s kink, they’re not just being rude—they’re reinforcing a culture of silence and fear around sexual expression.
Let’s be clear: If it’s informed, consensual, and between adults, it’s valid. Full stop.
Shaming people for what they enjoy in bed doesn’t make you more “normal.” It just makes it harder for everyone to explore safely, communicate openly, and feel worthy of love.
Swipe through to learn:
� What kink shaming sounds like
� Why it’s so harmful
� How to be part of the solution
� Let’s build a culture where consent matters more than conformity.
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Why do brats get such a bad rap?
Because people misunderstand them.
A brat isn’t just there to test your patience, she’s there to test your presence. She wants to believe in you before she gives you anything real. Her mischief is a question. Her resistance is a language.
And when she finally submits? It’s not routine. It’s sacred.
This post is for the Doms who want to earn it. Who don’t back down when challenged. Who know that bratty submission isn’t defiance, it’s devotion, forged in fire.
� Save this for when you need the reminder.
� Tag a Dom who gets it.
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Dom? Thinking of writing a BDSM contract?
Here’s the truth: You don’t need one for every dynamic. But if you want real clarity, real trust, and a container strong enough to hold power exchange… this tool changes everything.
From rules to rituals, from consent to commitment—this isn’t about micromanagement. It’s about leadership.
Save this for your next negotiation.
Tag a Dom who needs to read this. �
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Kink isn’t “risky” just because it’s intense.
The real danger comes when partners skip the conversations that matter.
This post is for the Doms who take their role seriously. For the subs who crave both depth and safety. For the dynamics built on trust, not just control.
You don’t need to be perfect—just aware, connected, and honest.
Risk assessment isn`t a mood killer. It`s part of the power.
� Save this post to revisit before your next scene.
� Share it with a partner who holds your trust.
� Let me know in the comments: What’s your favorite question to ask before a scene?
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Why “Good Girl” hits like lightning. �
To outsiders, praise might seem small. Soft. Maybe even irrelevant.
But inside a D/s dynamic?
It’s a weapon of connection.
“Good girl” doesn’t just affirm obedience.
It rewards devotion.
It says: I see your surrender, and I cherish it.
For submissives wired for praise, it’s not just psychological—it’s neurological. It hits like dopamine. And done right, it builds a bond stronger than any rulebook ever could.
� For the Dominants reading: don’t underestimate the power of well-timed, well-earned praise.
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What kind of collar are you wearing—or dreaming about?
Collars in D/s can mean so many different things. Some are playful. Some are sacred. Some are about learning, others about love.
This post breaks down 7 common types to help you reflect, communicate, and deepen your dynamic.
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� Comment with your experience
� DM me if you want a custom follow-up for your situation
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House of Herra is now online.
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Whether you`re a seasoned player or just beginning to understand your desires, this blog will offer insight, conversation, and unflinching honesty about the beauty, struggles, and growth found in D/s dynamics.
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Thinking about a collar? Here’s what to know.
In a D/s dynamic, a collar is never just jewelry.
It can be symbolic, playful, or deeply sacred—but it’s always personal.
This post breaks down what a collar can represent, how to approach the conversation, and how to know if you’re truly ready to wear one.
Whether you’re considering being collared or thinking about offering one, start with this.
✨ Save this for when the conversation comes up
🖤 Share it with someone who needs to see it
📥 DM me if you want to talk more about your collar journey
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Just because you share kinks doesn’t mean they’re safe to play with.
Vet the person, not just the fetish list.
Consent is a process. Trust is earned. And great scenes? They start long before the first toy comes out.
Whether you’re a sub, a Dom, a switch—or somewhere in between—vetting is for you. And it doesn’t make you cold, paranoid, or overly cautious. It makes you intentional.
✨ Take your time.
✨ Ask real questions.
✨ Pay attention to actions.
✨ And always, always trust your gut.
💬 What do you look for when vetting a partner?
Drop your thoughts or tips in the comments.
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Not all tears mean something`s wrong.
In BDSM, tears can be a powerful sign of release, surrender, and trust—when handled with care. 🖤
Whether you`re a Dom, sub, or switch, understanding the emotional intensity of kink is essential. Crying kinks are real, but they`re never an excuse to ignore consent, boundaries, or aftercare.
✨ Communicate.
✨ Check in.
✨ Care deeply.
📌 Save this post if you`re exploring emotional scenes or want to better support your partner when things get intense.
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Launch day, House of Herra is now online.
"From small acorns, mighty oaks grow"
Step into the shadows, where power meets purpose. House of Herra is your sanctuary for thoughtful exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, from the raw realities facing Dominants and submissives, to the personal reflections and evolving philosophy of Herra himself.
Whether you`re a seasoned player or just beginning to understand your desires, this blog will offer insight, conversation, and unflinching honesty about the beauty, struggles, and growth found in D/s dynamics.
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“Let’s Talk Aftercare, Before the Scene”
Because planning ahead = better care later.
Step into the shadows, where power meets purpose. House of Herra is your soon-to-launch sanctuary for thoughtful exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, from the raw realities facing Dominants and submissives, to the personal reflections and evolving philosophy of Herra himself.
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“DOM Aftercare Is Real”
Tops need care too—here’s why.
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“Types of Aftercare:
Pick What Works for You”
It’s not just about cuddles (but those are great too).
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"What is Aftercare, really?"
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"A Dom doesn`t
Step into the shadows, where power meets purpose. House of Herra is your soon-to-launch sanctuary for thoughtful exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, from the raw realities facing Dominants and submissives, to the personal reflections and evolving philosophy of Herra himself.
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"Getting Into the Right Headspace Before a BDSM Scene"
Step into the shadows, where power meets purpose. House of Herra is your soon-to-launch sanctuary for thoughtful exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, from the raw realities facing Dominants and submissives, to the personal reflections and evolving philosophy of Herra himself.
Whether you`re a seasoned player or just beginning to understand your desires, this blog will offer insight, conversation, and unflinching honesty about the beauty, struggles, and growth found in D/s dynamics.
Let the team at House of Herra know if you are a Dom or a sub and what you would like from a new BDSM site.
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“5 Green Flags From a Dom During Negotiation”
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“Dom Red Flags During Consent Talks”
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“Safe Words Aren’t Optional — Here’s Why”
Step into the shadows, where power meets purpose. House of Herra is your soon-to-launch sanctuary for thoughtful exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, from the raw realities facing Dominants and submissives, to the personal reflections and evolving philosophy of Herra himself.
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“Consent Doesn’t End When the Scene Starts”
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How do you get in your headspace before starting a scene?
We would love to know how you prepare.
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A Dom doesn`t need chains, cuffs or ropes to bind his sub....
Are you the one who takes control… or surrenders it?
Whether you crave power or long to give it up, your desires deserve a place to be explored.
🖤 Dominant or submissive?
🗝️ Join a community that understands both.
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Do you agree?
Sunday quotes, this one from the Marquis de Sade.
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A great night last Friday supporting friends at the @thealternativeawardsofficial 2025.
Congratulations to @red_ammunition_ and @swingathon.uk for the wins, both well deserved, and so glad I was there to witness it.
To all my other friends that were nominated, @pineapplelifestyle.app @misshannahrack @gutterslutqueen @baby_klc.uk @ukswinging_lifestyle , @charandbry @countryside_queen_ @kinkzclothing, you are all amazing!
Thank you to @saltire.photography and @simonbondphotographer for the photographs.
Are you the one who takes control… or surrenders it?
Whether you crave power or long to give it up, your desires deserve a place to be explored.
🖤 Dominant or submissive?
🗝️ Join a community that understands both.
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Let the team at House of Herra know if you are a Dom or a sub and what you would like from a new BDSM site.
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Sacred trust is never to be taken lightly. Honor. Cherish. Protect.
Step into the shadows, where power meets purpose. House of Herra is your soon-to-launch sanctuary for thoughtful exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, from the raw realities facing Dominants and submissives, to the personal reflections and evolving philosophy of Herra himself.
Whether you`re a seasoned player or just beginning to understand your desires, this blog will offer insight, conversation, and unflinching honesty about the beauty, struggles, and growth found in D/s dynamics.
Let the team at House of Herra know if you are a Dom or a sub and what you would like from a new BDSM site.
House of Herra… where dominance is intentional, submission is sacred, and every journey matters.
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A light-hearted reflection as a mature Dom.
Step into the shadows, where power meets purpose. House of Herra is your soon-to-launch sanctuary for thoughtful exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, from the raw realities facing Dominants and submissives, to the personal reflections and evolving philosophy of Herra himself.
Whether you`re a seasoned player or just beginning to understand your desires, this blog will offer insight, conversation, and unflinching honesty about the beauty, struggles, and growth found in D/s dynamics.
Let the team at House of Herra know if you are a Dom or a sub and what you would like from a new BDSM site.
House of Herra… where dominance is intentional, submission is sacred, and every journey matters.
#bdsmcommunity
#kinkcommunity
#dsmlifesytle
#bdsmlife
#bdsminspiration
#bdsmrelationship
#bdsm
#BDSMQuotes
#bdsmsub
#sub
#bdsmdom
#dom
#dominantsubmissive
#DominanceAndSubmission
#Domsub
#ddlg
#kink
#fetish
#shibari
#PowerExchange
#SafeSaneConsensual
#BDSM
#SacredBond
#Respect
#Consent
#Love
#Trust
#houseofherra
Step into the shadows, where power meets purpose. House of Herra is your soon-to-launch sanctuary for thoughtful exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, from the raw realities facing Dominants and submissives, to the personal reflections and evolving philosophy of Herra himself.
Whether you`re a seasoned player or just beginning to understand your desires, this blog will offer insight, conversation, and unflinching honesty about the beauty, struggles, and growth found in D/s dynamics.
Let the team at House of Herra know if you are a Dom or a sub and what you would like from a new BDSM site.
House of Herra… where dominance is intentional, submission is sacred, and every journey matters.
#bdsmcommunity
#kinkcommunity
#dsmlifesytle
#bdsmlife
#bdsminspiration
#bdsmrelationship
#bdsm
#BDSMQuotes
#bdsmsub
#sub
#bdsmdom
#dom
#dominantsubmissive
#DominanceAndSubmission
#Domsub
#ddlg
#kink
#fetish
#shibari
#PowerExchange
#SafeSaneConsensual
#BDSM
#SacredBond
#Respect
#Consent
#Love
#Trust
#houseofherra
What Dominance really is about...
Step into the shadows, where power meets purpose. House of Herra is your soon-to-launch sanctuary for thoughtful exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, from the raw realities facing Dominants and submissives, to the personal reflections and evolving philosophy of Herra himself.
Whether you`re a seasoned player or just beginning to understand your desires, this blog will offer insight, conversation, and unflinching honesty about the beauty, struggles, and growth found in D/s dynamics.
Let the team at House of Herra know if you are a Dom or a sub and what you would like from a new BDSM site.
House of Herra… where dominance is intentional, submission is sacred, and every journey matters.
#bdsmcommunity
#kinkcommunity
#dsmlifesytle
#bdsmlife
#bdsminspiration
#bdsmrelationship
#bdsm
#BDSMQuotes
#bdsmsub
#sub
#bdsmdom
#dom
#dominantsubmissive
#DominanceAndSubmission
#Domsub
#ddlg
#kink
#fetish
#shibari
#PowerExchange
#SafeSaneConsensual
#BDSM
#SacredBond
#Respect
#Consent
#Love
#Trust
#houseofherra
A real sub...
Step into the shadows, where power meets purpose. House of Herra is your soon-to-launch sanctuary for thoughtful exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, from the raw realities facing Dominants and submissives, to the personal reflections and evolving philosophy of Herra himself.
Whether you`re a seasoned player or just beginning to understand your desires, this blog will offer insight, conversation, and unflinching honesty about the beauty, struggles, and growth found in D/s dynamics.
Let the team at House of Herra know if you are a Dom or a sub and what you would like from a new BDSM site.
House of Herra… where dominance is intentional, submission is sacred, and every journey matters.
#bdsmcommunity
#kinkcommunity
#dsmlifesytle
#bdsmlife
#bdsminspiration
#bdsmrelationship
#bdsm
#BDSMQuotes
#bdsmsub
#sub
#bdsmdom
#dom
#dominantsubmissive
#DominanceAndSubmission
#Domsub
#ddlg
#kink
#fetish
#shibari
#PowerExchange
#SafeSaneConsensual
#BDSM
#SacredBond
#Respect
#Consent
#Love
#Trust
#houseofherra
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