Month: June 2025

“Subspace”

“Subspace”

I was asked recently to describe or explain subspace. Now being a Dom,...

“So You’re Watching a Scene”

“So You’re Watching a Scene”

Public kink spaces are designed to foster exploration, education, and...

“What the Dominant Gains in a D/s Relationship”

“What the Dominant Gains in a D/s Relationship”

For a person who has taken on the role of a Dominant in a consensual BDSM...

“What Is the Essence of a Dom/Sub Dynamic?”

“What Is the Essence of a Dom/Sub Dynamic?”

At its core, a Dominant/submissive (Dom/sub) dynamic is not about dominating...

Why wait till my older years to become a Dom, a reflection.

Why wait till my older years to become a Dom, a reflection.

Now, at age 59, I can look back with a clarity I simply didn’t have in...

Starting out on my journey as a Dom.

Starting out on my journey as a Dom.

Becoming a Dom has been an intricate and deeply personal journey for me,...