So you want to be a Dom
What Is a Dom ? A Dom, which stands for Dominant, is a man or woman who...
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Being a Gentleman Dom vs. an Alpha Dom in the BDSM Scene.
During my journey so far, I have come to realise where I fit in the spectrum...
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So I am a Sadist, but there are some things I will not do…
I have found that I am a bit of a Sadist. It is a part of who I am, stitched...
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“Discovering My Position as a Dom in the BDSM Lifestyle”
As a Dom in the BDSM world, I have often stood at a fork in the road of...
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Finding Myself Between Old Guard and New Guard
When the topic rolls around to the BDSM community today, it sometimes seems as...
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The Benefits of Reading a Submissive in a BDSM Scene. Over a purely scripted scene
While negotiation, consent, and established boundaries are the foundations of...
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Craving the Space Between:
There is a silence that lives between BDSM scenes. It is not merely the lack...
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Thoughts during Dom Drop
To be a Dominant in the BDSM lifestyle generally comes with the expectation...
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“Understanding Sub Drop” and “and How Dominants Can Help Submissives Recover”
In the world of BDSM and the power exchange dynamics, the scenes between...
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